The day your child was born was probably one of the best days you can remember. The mother and child connection is one of the strongest human bonds we can experience. The advice below will help you to build your relationship, ensuring that the connection between you and your child not only remains strong, it flourishes!
Imagine how your child will interpret what you tell him! You need to establish a foundation of trust between your child and you.
While it is true that your children need and deserve your time, the truth is that you do as well. This allows you the keep your own identity, as well as that of being a parent.
Sometimes you will neglect yourself when caring for your children, but you need to be a priority sometimes as well. Regardless of the stresses of the day, take some time to relax and rejuvenate yourself regularly. When you are relaxed and happy, your children will feel that way too.
Keep a good rotation of toys in your house. This can prevent your toddler from becoming tired of playing with the same thing. The interest span of a toddler usually only lasts a couple days. By changing up the toy box frequently, you can keep him interested in his “new” toys and avoid the temptation to buy new things too often.
Bring along things your child is familiar with from home when you are traveling with them. For adults, vacations are a way to get away from routine, but for children it can feel like a disruption. If your child has a treasured toy, stuffed animal or blanket to comfort him, he can more easily make the transition to an unfamiliar location.
Becoming a step-parent means there is a long road ahead of you before you will be accepted. Lots of children resent that their parents separated. Not being pushy, and allowing the relationship with your stepchildren to grow over time, is the best way to learn how to be a part of each other’s lives.
When your child is young, it is important to form a relationship that is both strong and meaningful. The positive effects of this type of relationship will spill over into your child’s teen years, when they are less likely to open up to their parent. Use the information given in the article above to build the kind of relationship you want with your child.
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